Twinkle and Beam!
Tuesday, July 1, 2014
Mini Message: Why Twinkle and Beam?
The answer is simple. Everyone is a star, unique, dynamic and sparkling in Divine perfection. No one and nothing can dim your Light. It is innate and indestructible. Our only job is to own it by shining it brightly and teaching others to do the same. It's the only way to brighten our world.
So do what you know within you is necessary to find your Light and shine it bright!
Twinkle and beam, Starlights! No one can shine like you!
Love always,
J*
Monday, June 30, 2014
Starlight Spotlight
Twinkle and Beam's Starlights are always accomplishing MAJOR goals!!! I get testimonial phone calls, e-mails and text messages on a near-daily basis from Starlights twinkling and beaming with blinging brightness!
From landing their dream jobs, opening their own businesses, falling in love, getting engaged, moving on from unsatisfying relationships, and relocating internationally to losing weight, buying their dream homes and having children when doctors claimed it was impossible, left and right, Starlights are pressing through their doubts and fears to manifest their wildest dreams! I'm always thrilled to hear these stories, but I'm never surprised. I know firsthand the power of intentional focus, visioning, affirmative thought and faith in manifesting a dreamy life and I know it's possible for everybody! Even YOU!
I thought it would be a good idea to put these stories where they belong on Twinkle and Beam in theStarlight Spotlight! But I must warn you, you may want to wear some shades because these Starlights are boasting some major wattage! I hope you're inspired by their stories and motivated to do the work to find YOUR Light and shine it bright!
Twinkle and Beam, Starlights!
Love always,
J*
Starlight Spotlight: Specificity and Visioning Help a Starlight to Land her Dream Job and Salary!
Starlight Spotlight:
I'm shining the spotlight on one of the Starlights (she knows who she is) that put in some really hard work to shine her light a whole lot brighter this year! With all the adversity she's faced, she kept her faith and focused her sights on her goals. She told me today that she landed a new job with the exact salary she put on her vision board! I'm so proud of her work and her faith!!! Here's to accomplishing more vision board goals! We've got lots of time left in 2014 for even more amazing things to happen! Way to Twinkle and beam, Starlight! I'm so proud of you!!! Congrats!
Starlights, I'm always ready to hear YOUR good news! Please share so that we can continue to inspire others to find their light and shine it bright! Your story is could save a light!
Twinkle and beam, Starlights!
Love always,
J*
I'm shining the spotlight on one of the Starlights (she knows who she is) that put in some really hard work to shine her light a whole lot brighter this year! With all the adversity she's faced, she kept her faith and focused her sights on her goals. She told me today that she landed a new job with the exact salary she put on her vision board! I'm so proud of her work and her faith!!! Here's to accomplishing more vision board goals! We've got lots of time left in 2014 for even more amazing things to happen! Way to Twinkle and beam, Starlight! I'm so proud of you!!! Congrats!
Starlights, I'm always ready to hear YOUR good news! Please share so that we can continue to inspire others to find their light and shine it bright! Your story is could save a light!
Twinkle and beam, Starlights!
Love always,
J*
Wednesday, June 25, 2014
Think for Freedom
Meditation Message:
Today's meditation was freeing! Throughout the day I had been asking myself what it is that I really want. Many things came to mind---a healthy family, food, shelter, peace, safety, joy, prosperity, love, but what each of these leads to for me is a sense of freedom. "That's it!" I said to myself. "I want to be free!" As I always do, I took this innermost desire into my heart and mind as I went into meditation and here's the message that I was given:
"Freedom begins and ends with a thought."
This statement resonated deeply and when my meditation ended, I sat and examined what thoughts I had been having that had me feeling as though freedom was lacking in my life. Upon examining my thoughts and perceptions, I found that I had been unconsciously highlighting ideas that were facilitating the absence of the freedom I want to welcome into my space. Immediately, I wrote new, transformative ideas to shift the energy around the thought patterns that were causing me to feel that freedom was not a part of my experience. Soon after, I began to feel more and more light and more and more...FREE! If I did all of this within the span of an hour, what could I do in a day? A week? A month? A year?
How free could we all be if we shift each of our negative thoughts to powerful, freedom-sparking affirmations? Take the time to examine the areas of your life that bring you the most challenge and closely examine the thoughts you have around these aspects of your life. Shift the thoughts that need shifting to ones that make you feel joyful, fulfilled and FREE...then see where life takes you!
Many blessings for tons of twinkling and a bunch of beaming!!!
Love always,
J*
Today's meditation was freeing! Throughout the day I had been asking myself what it is that I really want. Many things came to mind---a healthy family, food, shelter, peace, safety, joy, prosperity, love, but what each of these leads to for me is a sense of freedom. "That's it!" I said to myself. "I want to be free!" As I always do, I took this innermost desire into my heart and mind as I went into meditation and here's the message that I was given:
"Freedom begins and ends with a thought."
This statement resonated deeply and when my meditation ended, I sat and examined what thoughts I had been having that had me feeling as though freedom was lacking in my life. Upon examining my thoughts and perceptions, I found that I had been unconsciously highlighting ideas that were facilitating the absence of the freedom I want to welcome into my space. Immediately, I wrote new, transformative ideas to shift the energy around the thought patterns that were causing me to feel that freedom was not a part of my experience. Soon after, I began to feel more and more light and more and more...FREE! If I did all of this within the span of an hour, what could I do in a day? A week? A month? A year?
How free could we all be if we shift each of our negative thoughts to powerful, freedom-sparking affirmations? Take the time to examine the areas of your life that bring you the most challenge and closely examine the thoughts you have around these aspects of your life. Shift the thoughts that need shifting to ones that make you feel joyful, fulfilled and FREE...then see where life takes you!
Many blessings for tons of twinkling and a bunch of beaming!!!
Love always,
J*
Saturday, April 19, 2014
Appointments Available Now! Schedule Today!
Ready to twinkle and beam your way to a new you? You can schedule today! I know it's been a while since I've opened my schedule to take on new clients, but I've made room in my schedule to help those of you who are finally ready to see some incredible and magical changes take place in your lives!
I have evening and weekend appointments available in late April and May in my Largo, Maryland office or online via Skype! If you mention this ad when you schedule, you can receive 10% off your first session or service bundle! Click the Coach Me tab or visit www.janellmorgan.com to see my menu of services and schedule your appointment today!
I'm looking forward to helping you to shine your light super bright! Let's do this!
Until then....
Twinkle and Beam, Starlights!
J*
Friday, April 18, 2014
The Risk to Blossom
We don't often consider this, but there is risk both in complacency and the pursuit of our dreams. There is a level of discomfort in both as we trod through the adjustments of attempting to find fulfillment in the unsatisfactory or making the physical, psychological and emotional shifts necessary to propel ourselves in the directions of what has only been seen in our imaginations. Though both involve discomfort, the difference in dream pursuit is the existence of faith and hope. These intangible energies fuel all motivation and keep us inspired to take action consistently until the goal is reached. It is our responsibility to routinely fill our hearts, minds and imaginations with an influx of thoughts that feed our faith and hope so that we cross the finish lines of our dreams with our heads and arms raised in triumph and gratitude!
Here's to taking the risk to blossom!
Twinkle and Beam, Starlights!
J*
Thursday, March 6, 2014
Poisonous People
I liken life to be much like a bountiful
buffet. My favorite part of any buffet
is the dessert bar (although my dedication to clean eating forbids me from routinely partaking in such delights). A dessert bar is
usually full of decadent treats like rich fudge brownies, German chocolate and pineapple upside down
cakes, pies and cobblers, tarts, fresh fruit salads, parfaits, creamy
cheesecakes (my personal favorite) and fluffy tiramisu. Just
imagine yourself standing in front of that dessert bar facing all of those
mouth-watering choices.
Mmmmmmm.......which would you choose?
Now, imagine yourself having chosen your favorite dessert and taking the
little plate off the buffet and walking to your dinner table. You sit down ready to dive in, but just
before you do, take that same delicious dessert and sprinkle a healthy portion of rat poisoning all
over it. Take your fork, and dig in. With
each bite, you are slowly making yourself sicker and sicker. From an emotional standpoint, this is the exactly
what happens when we spend time with poisonous people. Yes, in general, these are people we love,
respect or care a great deal for, but with every interaction with these
individuals, we begin to feel less and less like who we truly are, walking away
from each interaction feeling emotionally exhausted and depleted. In real life, our buffet of poisonous people
is chock full of blamers and shamers, critics, gossipers and haters. But just as we have the power to choose our
decadent desserts, we also have the same ability to choose how we interact with
these people who can be so detrimental to our emotional health.
Friend or Foe?
Is my
relationship toxic?
Have you ever wondered if you're in a
toxic or emotionally abusive relationship?
Wonder no more. Here are a few
clues to determining whether you’re involved in a poisonous partnership:
·
If you feel completely humiliated,
embarrassed or disrespected when you're with a certain person or people.
·
You walk away from a conversation or
interaction with a person completely exhausted and drained.
·
You don’t feel like you are truly
accepted for who you are when you’re with this person.
· You feel you have to “walk on eggshells”
when you communicate with this person.
·
You have found yourself having to take a
deep, cleansing breath or give yourself a pep talk before seeing this person or
answering their phone calls.
·
Just the thought of interacting with this
person makes you cringe, feel sad, tired, annoyed or angry.
·
You just want to avoid this person
altogether.
If anyone came to mind as you read those
clues, 1.) I'd hate to be them, and 2.) more than likely the person you're
spending time with is a poisonous person and undoubtedly the relationship you
have with them is toxic. Oh, but never
to worry, you're not alone. Just about
everyone has or has had a person like this in their life. Poisonous people play a variety of roles and they can show up as friends, colleagues, significant others and even our own family members. Believe it or not,
there are healthy and effective ways of dealing with these sorts of
personalities.
Friend or Foe?
It’s always time to re-examine
friendships when you may feel there is an imbalance with regard to the level of
exchange in the relationship. Whether
the friendship is plutonic or romantic in nature, it is never healthy to feel
that you’re giving more than you’re receiving. Moreover, if the relationship causes you to
feel insulted or depleted in any way, it’s even more important to determine whether this
relationship is worth staying in. For
example, if your friend talks more about his/her life than he/she listens to
your issues, he/she interrupts you to share more about him/herself, he/she is
not accessible when you need to vent yet you’re always there for him/her, or if
he/she puts you down, calls you names, compares you to others or even how you
used to be, it may be time to re-evaluate the relationship. Friendships can be assets in life, but more
important than the physical presence of a “friend” is the feeling derived from
the friendship. Defining what a true
friend is and comparing your friend’s characteristics to that ideal can be an
enlightening means of determining whether a friendship or intimate relationship is worth continuing.
Family Fiend
One of the most difficult types of
poisonous people to grapple with is the poisonous family member. These relationships are especially
challenging because as a general rule, it is not as feasible to detach from
relatives as it is with people with whom there is no familial bond. Unlike friends or significant others,
relatives are not people we have consciously chosen to have in our lives (although,
I can pretty much guarantee we've all had a moment wherein we’ve wished we
could’ve had our pick) and therefore, being forced to cope with the difficult
personality of a family member is far more challenging because one often feels
obligated to make these relationships work under all circumstances. Family members can often be the most
poisonous people of all in our lives because they are generally with us from
the beginning. They’re often the ones by
which we most want to be accepted and they’re the ones who assist in the
shaping of our thoughts and beliefs about ourselves and others. Because family members know your history,
they may make statements in attempt to keep you tied to the person they
know. Statements like, “you always have
been…” or “you’ll never do that like your brother/sister/cousin, etc.” when
you’re putting forth effort to become who/what you want to be can be defeating
if you allow it. If you find that when
you spend time with these family members you’re feeling any of the symptoms of
a toxic relationship, it may be time to examine this relationship and whether your approach to your interactions with this person is healthy.
Ready to detox?
Once you come to the realization that
your relationship with someone is toxic, you’re faced with the challenge of
deciding whether the relationship is worth working through or if it’s time to
call it quits. When making the decision
to detox, keep in mind that you have been tied to this person for a reason and
it may take you some time to detach and heal from the trauma endured throughout
this relationship. Ask yourself, " Do I
feel like I want to fix it or nix it?" If
you decide the relationship is worth fixing, then you’ll have to approach this
person from a solution-oriented stance.
You must first accept and understand that this person treated you this
way because you allowed them to do so without consequence and be committed to
leaving the emotional hurts in the past and begin to redefine the way you want
your relationship to feel moving forward. This part may require the help of a
professional counselor, therapist or life coach to fully understand your
pattern of behavior and your past choice to accept what you deem unacceptable. Next, identify how you want to feel when you’re
with this person and based on this answer, determine what behaviors you both
must engage in in order to allow this feeling to be ignited. Communicate with this person openly and
honestly indicating how you felt in the past, what behaviors they formerly
exhibited and what behaviors you feel will be necessary for them to engage in
in order for you to feel emotionally safe with them. Consistent, open communication is truly the
only way to successfully heal any fractured relationship.
If you choose to nix it, be fully committed to that choice. It is never a good idea to have one foot in the door and the other foot out. This sort of stance is confusing not only for you, but also for the poisonous partner, and it leaves the door wide open for you to be hurt again. Would you leave the front door to your house open for a known burglar to come in? If you answered yes to that question, there are some concerns existing that this article will never be able to address. Most folks would surely answer no. Leaving your emotional doors open to people who have caused you pain once you have decided you no longer want this sort of unhealthy tie, is license to allow them to perpetrate again and again. If the choice is to nix it, let the relationship go, mentally picture yourself sticking one of those lime green Mr. Yuck stickers on the person as you send them packing and move forward open to accepting new, healthy and edifying relationships in your life. Define what a healthy relationship is and commit to only engaging in what you’ve defined as healthy. When it comes to detoxing from familial ties, open communication about your feelings is also key, but as much as possible, limit your interaction with your poisonous relatives or if you have to be around them, shift the topic of discussion to something that is more acceptable for you to discuss. Make it clear by refusing to engage in negative conversation that their behavior is not something you will continue to tolerate. Your response to the undesired behavior is the key to shifting it in the right direction.
If you choose to nix it, be fully committed to that choice. It is never a good idea to have one foot in the door and the other foot out. This sort of stance is confusing not only for you, but also for the poisonous partner, and it leaves the door wide open for you to be hurt again. Would you leave the front door to your house open for a known burglar to come in? If you answered yes to that question, there are some concerns existing that this article will never be able to address. Most folks would surely answer no. Leaving your emotional doors open to people who have caused you pain once you have decided you no longer want this sort of unhealthy tie, is license to allow them to perpetrate again and again. If the choice is to nix it, let the relationship go, mentally picture yourself sticking one of those lime green Mr. Yuck stickers on the person as you send them packing and move forward open to accepting new, healthy and edifying relationships in your life. Define what a healthy relationship is and commit to only engaging in what you’ve defined as healthy. When it comes to detoxing from familial ties, open communication about your feelings is also key, but as much as possible, limit your interaction with your poisonous relatives or if you have to be around them, shift the topic of discussion to something that is more acceptable for you to discuss. Make it clear by refusing to engage in negative conversation that their behavior is not something you will continue to tolerate. Your response to the undesired behavior is the key to shifting it in the right direction.
Recognizing when you’re in a toxic
relationship is not always easy. It is
important in any relationship to always check in with yourself to determine if
you’re still present as who you want to be which, at times, can be very different from who
you’re accustomed to being. Performing
these periodic check-ins helps to make us aware and motivates us to take action
when relationships begin to become unhealthy for us. When it comes to the relationships we’re in,
we must remember that choosing people to keep close to us also means that we
are choosing outcomes. What types of
people are you choosing to share your life with, those that will help you to
sink or those that will help you to soar?
Choose wisely and accept from others only what is acceptable for
you. Take your emotions into your own
hands and treat them like gold. It is
your responsibility to teach others how you want to be treated. The way that others treat you is a direct
reflection of the way you treat yourself.
If you or someone
you know needs help with a relationship, contact a friend or family member you
trust, a clergyman, a counselor, or call your local hospital or mental health
center. If you are in imminent danger,
help is available at The National Domestic Violence Hotline, (800) 799-SAFE,
where someone can put you in touch with safe housing and other
resources or by dialing 911 or visiting your local emergency room.
Be safe, Starlights!
Twinkle & Beam!
J*
Be safe, Starlights!
Twinkle & Beam!
J*
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